"Grandma, when I grow up, I want to be just like you." My granddaughter was 7 years old. That's the day I realized my mascara wasn't so innocent.

What we pass on to our granddaughters through morning rituals — and why, at 63, my choice of mascara is no longer solely my own.

By Isabelle M., 63, Toulouse — For SantéAuFéminin.fr

My name is Isabelle. I am 63 years old. I live in Toulouse, near the Capitole.

 

My granddaughter's name is Léa. She is 7 years old. When her mom and dad go away for the weekend, she sometimes comes to spend a few nights at my place. These are precious moments — between us, it's quiet, we cook together, we read, we draw. She tells me about her school, her classmates, things she doesn't tell her parents.

 

And there's a moment of the day she loves: in the morning, when I put on my makeup.

 

Léa sits on the bathroom stool — the one I use to store cotton pads and towels — and watches me. With a concentration that touches me. She doesn't say much. She observes.

 

She likes lipstick. For blush, she wants to know why I put it on my cheekbone and not on my forehead. For perfume, she asks for a drop on her wrist, which she smells all morning.

 

But what she prefers is mascara.

 

She likes to watch me apply the brush, slowly, root after root. She likes it when I blink to check the result. She likes to watch my defined lashes in the magnifying mirror.

 

And one Sunday last October, she told me something that stopped me in my tracks.

Léa's sentence

That Sunday, I had just finished applying my mascara. I straightened up to look at myself in the mirror. Léa, who was beside me, looked at me—first in the mirror, then directly, turning her head.

 

And she said to me, calmly, without premeditation, as one states a simple truth:

 

"Grandma, later, when I grow up, I want to be like you."

 

I stood still. I must have looked foolish, because she continued, without noticing:

 

"You, you do your mascara. Mom says she doesn't have time. Grandma Yvonne (her paternal grandmother), she says she's past that age. But you, you take the time. And you are pretty. I want to do like you when I'm old."

 

I continued to look at myself in the mirror, without moving. I placed my hands on the edge of the dressing table to steady myself.

 

Léa got up from the stool. She went to get a book from the living room.

 

I didn't answer her at the moment. I don't think I could have.

What struck me in the evening

When her father came to pick her up in the late afternoon, I hugged her tight, told her "see you next Sunday," and watched her get into the car.

 

When the car turned the corner, I sat down in the living room with a cup of tea. And I thought about what she had told me. For a long time.

 

What struck me wasn't the phrase itself — "I want to be like you" is a sweet, ordinary child's phrase.

 

What struck me was what she had said before: "Mommy says she doesn't have time. Grandma Yvonne says it's not for her age anymore."

 

For Léa, at 7 years old, the mascara I put on in the morning isn't just a detail of my routine.

 

It's an option she's considering for her own future.

 

She compares. She observes. She categorizes the adult women in her life into two groups: those who take care of themselves (me), those who don't have time (her mother, still working, overwhelmed), and those who think it's no longer for their age (her Grandma Yvonne, 73, who has "given up").

 

And from all of this, she builds a silent image of what it means to grow old as a woman.

 

Not the textbook lesson. The silent lesson — the one we transmit through gestures, unknowingly.

 

For Léa, I am a possibility. An option she's considering for when she's my age.

The next morning

The next morning, I looked at my mascara in the makeup bag. It was my Serolys Cocoa Brown—the one I'd been using for almost a year, ever since that Saturday in Cahors when I'd found a photo of my mother and decided not to become like her.

 

I thought about what that brand really meant.

 

On their website, essentially, they write:

 

"Your eyelashes are 60 years old. Your mascara should be too."

 

No "look 10 years younger." No "lashes like when you were 25." No promise to erase time.

 

It's a mascara that embraces my age instead of fighting it. A mascara that assumes I have thin lashes—and enhances them as they are, without pretending they're the lashes I had at 30. A mascara that speaks of women 60+ as full, present, dignified women—not as thirty-somethings-in-decline who need to be patched up with anti-aging promises.

 

When Léa watches me put on this mascara in the morning, what she sees is not a grandmother trying to look younger.

 

What she sees is a grandmother who continues to take care of herself, who continues to exist, without denying her age.

What it conveys, and what it could convey

And then I realized something that almost scared me.

 

If tomorrow Léa becomes a woman who wears makeup at 30, at 40, at 60, pleasing herself without feeling she has to look younger... it might be partly thanks to those 30 seconds in the morning when she watched me apply my mascara.

 

But if, on the other hand, I used a mascara that promises to make me look younger, that tells me that at my age I have to fight wrinkles, that I have to erase signs, wipe away marks — what am I transmitting to Léa?

 

I'm transmitting to her that getting old is a struggle.

 

That becoming a mature woman is something to hide.

 

That beauty, after 50, is a simulation.

 

That her own wrinkles, in 50 years, will be flaws to correct.

 

And that at some point, she will have to choose between giving up like Grandma Yvonne or simulating youth — without any third option having been shown to her.

 

I don't want to transmit that to her.

The system behind the mascara

I'm not an activist. I don't give speeches. But here's what I understood that week, thinking about Léa.

 

Serolys mascara is designed specifically for women's eyelashes after 55 — they call it Calibration 60+:

 

● A "60+ Anatomy" brush with filaments calibrated for thin and sparse eyelashes (mine, at 63, are about thirty per eye — the brush grips them without clumping, without letting them slip).

 

● A water-based pH neutral formula — not waterproof, so no migration into fine lines at 4 PM, no dark circles under the eyes at 8 PM, removal with warm water without rubbing (my eyelashes no longer fall out onto the cotton pad).

 

● 4 calibrated shades for mature skin (Cocoa Brown, Velvet Black, Plum, Anthracite) — to soften the contrast with skin that has lost its warmth, not to force it with an aggressive black.

 

● A 365-day empty bottle guarantee — you use it all, you return the empty tube if you're not satisfied, you get a refund. No major French group offers that.

But most importantly — their marketing approach is different.

 

They don't write "anti-aging". They write "pro-aging". They don't write "rejuvenate". They write "enhance who you are today". They don't show 25-year-old models in their visuals. They show women my age.

 

When Léa looks at me on their website, on the packaging, in the brand's communications — she sees women who resemble her in the long term. Not cosmetic transformations. Not simulated promises. Women who are 60, 65, 70 years old and who are beautiful at their age, not despite their age.

 

That's what I want to pass on to Léa.

Three weeks later

Three weeks after that conversation, as I walked Léa to her father's car one Sunday evening, she stopped at the doorstep. She rummaged in her small backpack and pulled out a drawing.

 

The drawing showed two figures. A little girl (Léa herself, I recognized her by her pink rubber boots that she never takes off) and an older lady (me, with my gray hair in a bun).

 

On the lady, she had drawn very large eyes, with petal-like eyelashes — like when you draw stars. And above the drawing, she had written, in her careful first-grade handwriting:

 

"Later, like Grandma."

 

I didn't say anything. I hugged her tight.

 

I hung the drawing on my dressing table, next to the photo of my mother.

 

The two images now face each other every morning when I do my makeup.

 

On the left, my mother at 62, who had given up. On the right, Léa at 7, who wrote: "later like Grandma."

In between, there I am.

 

Every morning, I choose which of these two paths I want to pass on.

Comparaison concrète : positionnement

Mascaras "anti-âge" mainstream (L'Oréal, Lancôme, Vichy...) Serolys Pro-Âge
Promesse marketing ❌ "Rajeunissez de 10 ans / cils comme à 25" ✅ "Vos cils ont 60 ans. Votre mascara devrait aussi."
Posture vis-à-vis de l'âge ❌ Combat : anti-rides, anti-âge, lutte ✅ Assumer : calibré pour les cils tels qu'ils sont
Cible d'études ❌ 18-55 ans en moyenne ✅ 55-75 ans spécifiquement
Brosse ❌ Standard (cils denses) ✅ Calibrée cils fins/clairsemés
Formule ❌ Cires + solvants, souvent waterproof ✅ Water-based, pH neutre
Teintes ❌ Noir intense par défaut ✅ 4 teintes calibrées peau mature
Démaquillage ❌ Frotter, cils arrachés ✅ Eau tiède, sans frotter
Garantie ❌ Aucune ✅ 365 jours, flacon vide accepté
Ce que ça transmet à votre petite-fille ❌ "Ta grand-mère se bat contre son âge" ✅ "Ta grand-mère se soigne et reste elle-même"

C'est peut-être la dernière ligne qui est la plus importante.

The guarantee that reverses the risk

365 days to test. Empty bottle or not. No conditions.

 

You buy. You use. If within 12 months you are not satisfied — for any reason — you return the empty tube, and you get your money back.

 

No major group offers this. Not a single one.

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In summary, what's new with this mascara

Before giving you the link, here's a brief overview of everything that concretely changes with Serolys Pro-Age mascara:

 

✅ The only French mascara that embraces your age instead of pretending to erase it — no "anti-aging," no "rejuvenating," no "like 25 again." A brand that claims: "Your lashes are 60. Your mascara should be too." — a consistent message to convey to the young women who look up to you.

 

✅ An "Anatomy 60+" brush with filaments calibrated for thin and sparse lashes — it grips instead of slipping, separates instead of clumping.

 

✅ A water-based, pH-neutral formula, without aggressive solvents — that doesn't migrate into fine lines, doesn't sting dry eyes post-menopause, and removes with warm water without rubbing (you keep your lashes).

 

✅ 4 calibrated shades for mature skin (Cocoa Brown, Velvet Black, Plum, Anthracite), to soften the contrast with your skin that has lost warmth, not to force it with an aggressive black.

 

✅ Visual effect from the first application and visibly strengthened lash appearance over 2 to 4 weeks of regular use (peptides + biotin).

 

✅ 365-day empty bottle guarantee — unique in the French mascara market. If you are not satisfied, you return the empty tube, and you get a refund.

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How to order

Serolys Pro-Âge mascara is currently available for €29 instead of €49 on their official website. Free delivery for orders over €30 (so, in practice, for two tubes or one tube + a skincare cream from their range).

 

At €29 for a tube that lasts approximately 60 days, that's less than 50 cents per day. For a product that helped me choose the right message to convey to my granddaughter, it's negligible.

 

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What I would add in all honesty:

 

It's a DTC brand (direct-to-consumer, not in pharmacies). You won't find it in stores.

 

Delivery time is 2 to 4 days in mainland France.

 

And yes — they honor their guarantee.

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One last word

I am 63 years old. My granddaughter is 7.

 

For her, my morning mascara is more than a detail. It's a message about what it means to grow old as a woman.

 

What message will I pass on to her? That beauty is a facade? That aging is something to hide? That dignity is reserved for the young?

 

No. I want to convey something else to her.

 

That aging means continuing. That taking care of oneself is self-respect. That beauty at 63 is not an imitation of beauty at 25 — it's its own thing, deserving of its own tools.

 

That's what Serolys allowed me to do. Not just another cosmetic product. A product that helped me choose the right message for Léa.

 

If you have granddaughters, nieces, goddaughters, young women you love who look up to you — you are transmitting something, whether you want to or not.

 

The mascara you put on in the morning is part of that message.

 

You have 365 days to decide which one you want to transmit.

 

— Isabelle M., 63, Toulouse

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Frequently Asked Questions

Q: I don't have granddaughters. Is this product for me?

 

A: Yes. What is passed on through morning rituals is not limited to granddaughters. Your nieces, your goddaughters, your daughter-in-law, your younger friends, your adult daughter—any young woman who crosses your path builds an image of what it means to age as a woman, partly from what she sees in you. The choice of mascara is part of that message, even without Léa around.

 

Q: It's a bit philosophical for a mascara, isn't it?


 

A: It's also technically an excellent mascara—brush calibrated for fine lashes, pH-neutral water-based formula that doesn't smudge, gentle makeup removal that doesn't pull out lashes, unique 365-day guarantee on the French market. You pay €29 for a product that objectively works better on 60+ lashes. The pro-age positioning is what makes it unique, but you buy it primarily because it works.

 

Q: I have very sensitive eyes. Can I use it?

 

A: The pH-neutral water-based formula is ophthalmologically tested. Suitable for sensitive eyes, contact lens wearers, and women with a history of blepharitis or dry eyes.

 

Q: Do I need a special makeup remover?

 

A: No. Warm water on cotton, without rubbing. The formula rinses off naturally. You keep your lashes.

 

Q: How long before I see results?

 

A: The visual effect is immediate from the first application. The fortifying effect of the active ingredients (peptides + biotin) is gradually visible over 2 to 4 weeks of regular use—visibly strengthened lash appearance.

 

Q: Which shade should I choose?

 

A: Cocoa Brown for brunettes, Velvet Black for fair skin/light eyes, Plum for gray/silver eyes, Anthracite for dark brunettes. If in doubt, their advisor responds quickly by email.

 

Q: What if I'm not convinced?

 

A: 365-day empty bottle guarantee. You use it completely, send the empty tube back to the brand, and you get a refund. No questions asked.

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